Anyone else also alone in a big house all by themselves on festive days?

Would you like to meet over coffee or walk in parks?

Seeking to form connections in the community around Yorkshire.

I am in Doncaster, between Leeds, Sheffield, Lincoln, Hull and York.

I am a professional woman, nonsmoker, softly spoken, cat lover.

I am gentle, value kindness and seek to meet with genuine people.

I have a car so can drive near you if not too far from Doncaster.

And you?

I have stories to share if we were to meet.

Once upon a time, a damsel in distress had to run.

A knight in shining armour came by.

But other knights were around.

Some weren't shining.

What happened next?

Contact me and I can tell you.

It's a true story.

By the way, if you know a cat that needs looking after, or if you have a spare huge cat tree (or small cat scratch post) and cat litter trays/pet carriers, please contact me.

Look forward to hearing from you and meeting with kind people in and around Doncaster/Yorkshire.

Thank you.

NB1. Nonsmokers and kind/honest people only. If you aren't 100% nonsmoker, or if you are a liar or are rude and aggressive to waitresses and waiters, please don't contact me. You'd be doing to me and I don't need those in life. I stay away from dishonest people telling lies, and I've tales to tell.

NB2. People of all gender and all ages welcome, but please note that this is not a dating ad. Please do not contact me with dating propositions such as asking if I have a bf or asking for my photo. Anyone doing will be blocked.

NB3. I am seeking to meet with people face to face to spend time together. This ad is not online-only dating chatline, so if that is what you seek like an online 1-line chit chat text message exchange addict, please pass, as there is no need for you to make contact.

NB4. Please don't send a 1-liner. Please write properly to introduce yourself including your gender, location, whether you drive/have a car and something about you in your own words. If you do this, you will hear back from me and that's a promise.

Thanks.

PS. Here I give some examples of dishonest liars who l love lies. (Another name for them: Timewasters.) One reply I had was from someone who doesn't live in Doncaster contacting me (not through this ad) but claimed falsely that he does. I later asked him in a different platform which city he lives in. He then named he lives in another city near Doncaster. Why such lies? What - and from whom - have you something to hide? Your wife? Your mistress? (Because you are cheating on both and looking for mistress number 3, 4 and 5 and 6 until you lose count like the former prime minister? You want to beat him and be better than him?)

Another example of liars? Another man contacted me (not through this ad) saying he wants to 'chat' as he feels isolated. I told him that that was not what I offered in that ad is about (it actually stated specifically not to contact me for that reason), and advised him to go out to bars and chat with people if he is not disabled and he doesn't have mobility problems that make him to be housebound yet he feels isolated. He then contacts me through a different ad to do with Doncaster, saying he lives in Doncaster and wants to chat. Oh, really? You so now you live in Doncaster? Since when? Since this morning in your mind? I asked him very basic questions about living in Doncaster (as I know Doncaster) to substantiate what he claimed (probably falsely). He couldn't answer such basics, and instead, he became rude, throwing personal attacks on me.

See people? The above are real examples of people who are into lies and deceptions, in addition to rudeness and aggression. I stay away from such lot. I sort of feel sorry for them, in that whoever raised them didn't do a good job as a parent for them to turn out as they did, and they have such issues in that they imagine me to be a young, beautiful girl who is looking for dating, which all my ads have clearly stated is not the case and instead said do not contact me if you are looking for dating with a pretty faced girl or if you feel lonely and want online text message chat exchanges. I am not a therapist so can't help you if you were one of them. If you were, go seek help as you need it. Ask your doctor to refer you to counselling and therapies to address your issues, or search online 'loneliness helpline' and speak to someone professional, instead of expecting me to be some kind of pretty faced girl who will save you as such dreams won't be coming to reality.

As for me? How many times do I have to make it clear that my ads are not dating ads and Gumtree is not a dating website. Why don't people not get the word 'platonic' when I have made clear again and again that this is for platonic (and nothing romantic) meetup? What about this? Say I am old, fat and ugly. But I have a kind heart and I make a great conversation and hobby/activity partner on topics from evolution of Tiger conglomerates' economic powerhousing to DV8's transdisciplinary digitalisation of physycal theatre moves. Still want to meet up with me? If you can answer yes, you can contact me. (See what you're missing out on when you obsess with pretty-faced girls with no brains. As for whether I really am old, fat and ugly, well, why don't you discover it yourself if you are curious to know, and why does it matter anyway when we are meeting purely platonically?)

On a positive note, I have met numerous kind and genuine people in the Gumtree community, including a genuine man (a genuine person rather - it just happens for them to be a man as what gender they are isn't relevant to me as I am not one of the timewasters looking for dating on Gumtree) that I have come across recently, who I look forward to meeting and forming a meaning and mutually supportive friendship with, and I look forward to meeting more alike here.