IN ORDER FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND, WHAT IT MEANS AND WHAT IT DOES TO YOU, WHEN YOU LOSE YOUR SPOUSE I MUST TAKE YOU BACK IN TIME IN THIS BOOK YOU WILL HEAR ME TAKING ABOUT MY STEP CHILDEN, BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT ALL OF MY STEP CHILDEN ARE NOT STEP CHILDEN TO ME OR THEM.I CALL THEM STEP CHILDEN IN THIS BOOK BECAUSE THIS IS BACED ON THE TRUTH, SO I HAVE TO CALL THEM WANT THEY ARE TRUEFULY STEP CHILDEN.BUT THEY ARE MORE THEN STEP CHILDEN THEY ARE LIKE MY OWN KIDS.I HAVE NEVER CALLED THEM STEP KIDS IN MY LIFE, EVERY ONE OF THEM ARE MY KIDS. AND THEY FILL THE SAME ABOUT ME AS THERE FATHER NOT STEP FATHER. I JUST WANT TO MAKE THAT CLEAR TO YOU BEFORE YOU READ THIS

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